So the end of the school year has finally been here and gone.
We are now in the middle of the first week of school holidays that will last for six weeks.
Next year things are going to be different.
Next year we are starting Home Education.
Why Home Education? Because of the children's problems with school, and their learning problems.
In our state kids are suppose to do an accelerated learning at a level higher than that of the state schools and private schools.
Frankly this is discrimination.
I am allowed to do an IEP but I've had to get supporting info about the children's learning problems.
Not to hard since they're made the so called safety net that was suppose to pick up kids that were struggling in order to get the extra assistance they needed.
It's a shame that its not been followed through despite the funding being given.
The school has tried yet again to stop me from doing Home Education.
I'm armed with a tonn of information and legal papers this time , so they're not going to win.
The school reason for complaining about a child they can't stand or handle?
Funding!
yep...
I found out that my II child is worth up to AU$10000/yr to the school and the other one that's getting very little assistance is worth AU$1700/yr.
The average state school only gets AU$500/yr/student.
It is a little daunting starting up. The more I think of all the different ways to do HE, research more info about the different types and ways of study that are being used by different people, the easier it gets.
Home educating kids with II and ADHD is not the most ideal situation, but from what I've learnt and seen from what has happened to the school system, it's going to be better in the long term.
I will be taking a child that's suppose to be in grade 5 and teaching him parts of the alphabet he doesn't know.
How does a child get to grade 5 without a teacher noticing he lacks full understanding of the ABC, phonetics and spelling, lack of knowledge of sight words and not understanding the core fundamentals of maths!!
No wonder the poor child is struggling to read and write.
This child has been labeled lazy!!
I have discovered he lacks memory skills, auditory and some visual perception as well as a possibility of left ear dominancy.
Left ear dominancy on its own will make a child loose around 30% of the info via the cerebellum before it gets to the right hand side of the brain where the info can be interpreted.
He needs a tailored made IEP and one on one, not told he is lazy!
I have estimated that it will take around two years for this child to catch up to his peers, provided he has medical intervention to help him concentrate with study.
We are also implementing strategies for him to cope when he is stressed from the work being a little to much or difficult. At school he has learnt that he can't get the assistance he needs, gets stressed and ruins his school books. He has been sent to the office and punished a few times for this behavior.
The II child has already got a plan set out for his education so we are going to adjust it to suit home ed.
The third child is a little behind in 2 areas but with one on one I would not be surprised if he ends up with a B in most subjects by the end of the year. Lets see how they will go.
The studies will be done in groups for unit studies, then modified to their yr level for work and ability.
Their sister will be joining them twice a week for preschool and their little brother for kindy.
The rest of the time they will be in prep and kindy at a private education centre, so I can spend one on one with each of the boys.
When they are a little older they will join in fully.
I wonder what that will be like?
I am a head of committee to a matter close to heart as well and starting up an home based business to help feed us.
I am required to work as well, so its going to be interesting for a while.
Well I've got to go now, work to do.
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Yippy it's christmas!
I can't believe it! It's already christmas!
It's time to be with your family and have fun....
Go on holidays....
See your friends and party!
Hmm...Some how I don't think that will include me!
Why? Because I'm staying home for christmas to be with my little family like I do every year.
It would be nice to see my other family but I can't get contact with them because of my mother!
Family means so much to me, I love it and miss it ( except my own--I'm with them all the time).
Maybe one day....
Time to finnish the christmas shopping and helping in the mean time.
Have a great christmas and don't drink and drive!
It's time to be with your family and have fun....
Go on holidays....
See your friends and party!
Hmm...Some how I don't think that will include me!
Why? Because I'm staying home for christmas to be with my little family like I do every year.
It would be nice to see my other family but I can't get contact with them because of my mother!
Family means so much to me, I love it and miss it ( except my own--I'm with them all the time).
Maybe one day....
Time to finnish the christmas shopping and helping in the mean time.
Have a great christmas and don't drink and drive!
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
large families plus
I've been hard at it.
Still along way to go...but part way there already.
Please check out this site I am working hard on this.
http://groups.google.com/group/large-families-plus
It's a group designed from ppl like me to ppl like you.
As we all have a common goal and interest.
There are discussion boards web pages you name it.
We are going to make it bigger and better, and I need you to help us achieve this goal.
Ideas are always welcome at large families plus...weather it be about multicultural issues, time out, home education, blended families you name it, we ant to here from you the reader.
It is not just my site its our site and together we will make it.
We are developing a kids page too.
Hope to see you there and give us all the support you can please as this is non profit.
Still along way to go...but part way there already.
Please check out this site I am working hard on this.
http://groups.google.com/group/large-families-plus
It's a group designed from ppl like me to ppl like you.
As we all have a common goal and interest.
There are discussion boards web pages you name it.
We are going to make it bigger and better, and I need you to help us achieve this goal.
Ideas are always welcome at large families plus...weather it be about multicultural issues, time out, home education, blended families you name it, we ant to here from you the reader.
It is not just my site its our site and together we will make it.
We are developing a kids page too.
Hope to see you there and give us all the support you can please as this is non profit.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Problems with the school system
There is nothing like working with children with disabilities.
I love it very much, as trying as it can be.
Ben is still having huge problems with his ADHD, ODD, and CD type behaviours.
I have been trying for quiet some time to get some-one of their butt and officially diagnose him.
Like Sam, they seem to have put him in the too hard basket and are not willing to do anything about it.
The sad part is that if he was in a foster care system he would have been diagnosed a long time ago.
He told me this morning that his teacher has been calling him lazy.
I have taken the behaviour and learning issues up with the teachers and principal, including the guidance officer at the school, only to be ignored.
They have blatantly told me they are not going to bother to help him.
At his old school down south he was getting intensive assistance via the SEU unit and speech therapy.
This has been taken away from him without further testing. I had to arrange all the testings for him and independent reviews, which they are still putting on the back burner.
The school has been getting government grants to give him intensive assistance. All he has got so far is a little bit of reading help.
His reading is at yr 2-3 while he is in grade 4 about to go to grade 5.
The grants include the safety net grant and reading program grant so why aren't they implementing it?
They get AU$500/school yr for him + $700 for the voucher safety net + I think it was $400 they said for the reading program Give or take.
All his subjects all yr he has been averaging between D-F with a lot of E's.
I ask him regularly if he is getting help, and have been told it's only occasionally that he gets it.
Sam has had similar issues with his learning disability at school as well.
Although he now gets some help, and is finally on medication, he spends a large amount of the school yr trying to settle into the school system.
This quiet often has been very dangerous to his safety at school.
Under the legislation all school are suppose provide a safe environment for all children.
When they are unable to meet this they are suppose to take appropriate steps to achieve this. This is not always able to be done, in which another method is suppose be sort for and implemented.
This included one on one assistance with the student and/ or possible inclusion to the SEU unit if not fully.
In our area they no longer have an SEU unit able to take full time students in SEU for their safety.
You have to be, if I remember rightly, level 4-6.
There is only one place in town that can take that level and it is full, like all centres across the state.
This is due to a major lack of funding in our state school and SEU system with 75% of the Federal Government funding going to private schools.
This means for the children they are going to keep getting further behind at school and have a very high chance of dropping out of school, as well as high risk of low self esteem, poverty, possible homelessness, joblessness, difficulty with relationships and integrating into society including a possibility of turning to crime.
As a parent, I refuse to sit back and be told that this situation is OK, and I'll be damned if I will let it happen.
It is my right and my duty to do all that is possible to help these kids achieve the best they can in life.
It has now come point where after much research and consideration, I will be taking the children from the state school system in preference of IEP (Individual Education Plan) from home.
This by no means is going easy, especially for Ben.
Sam however should perform better as he wont be thrown out of whack every time school holidays come around or his teacher is away.
This will also improve his safety, and give them both the one on one assistance that they need.
I hope to have them both catch up to their peers as close as possible and to their ability by the end of the yr with possibility two yrs to be on the safe side with Sam.
Three weeks ago I was talking on the phone to a supervisor from the head office and discovered that Sam is suppose to be in full time SEU for his safety.
This only reconfirmed for me the urgent need to start home Education.
Let us hope he makes it through the last few weeks of school OK while I prepare the paper work.
I tried to do this last yr but was told by the school it was illegal and that I had no other choice but for him to attend that school. I was also told that if I didn't send him there that I would have him taken off me by the dept. All for trying to protect his life as required by law.
No-one ever said hey this situation is not working why don't you give him home education like most other parents with disabled kids, and kids who live out west!
No I'm afraid they have had 4yrs to prove themselves with Ben,and Sam who has a right to be and feel safe.
Next year we will open that big scary door to home education for their sakes.
This by no means is a little decision. I have had to give up work for this.
I am a single parent and need to be able to work, but some times you have to draw a line as to what is more important.
I do hope to be able to start up a home business to try to generate income. Who knows, the kids may be able to learn how to manage it in future too.
That will help them in the future with work opportunities, as they will learn business skills.
So here's to a new path in learning and future opportunities!
I love it very much, as trying as it can be.
Ben is still having huge problems with his ADHD, ODD, and CD type behaviours.
I have been trying for quiet some time to get some-one of their butt and officially diagnose him.
Like Sam, they seem to have put him in the too hard basket and are not willing to do anything about it.
The sad part is that if he was in a foster care system he would have been diagnosed a long time ago.
He told me this morning that his teacher has been calling him lazy.
I have taken the behaviour and learning issues up with the teachers and principal, including the guidance officer at the school, only to be ignored.
They have blatantly told me they are not going to bother to help him.
At his old school down south he was getting intensive assistance via the SEU unit and speech therapy.
This has been taken away from him without further testing. I had to arrange all the testings for him and independent reviews, which they are still putting on the back burner.
The school has been getting government grants to give him intensive assistance. All he has got so far is a little bit of reading help.
His reading is at yr 2-3 while he is in grade 4 about to go to grade 5.
The grants include the safety net grant and reading program grant so why aren't they implementing it?
They get AU$500/school yr for him + $700 for the voucher safety net + I think it was $400 they said for the reading program Give or take.
All his subjects all yr he has been averaging between D-F with a lot of E's.
I ask him regularly if he is getting help, and have been told it's only occasionally that he gets it.
Sam has had similar issues with his learning disability at school as well.
Although he now gets some help, and is finally on medication, he spends a large amount of the school yr trying to settle into the school system.
This quiet often has been very dangerous to his safety at school.
Under the legislation all school are suppose provide a safe environment for all children.
When they are unable to meet this they are suppose to take appropriate steps to achieve this. This is not always able to be done, in which another method is suppose be sort for and implemented.
This included one on one assistance with the student and/ or possible inclusion to the SEU unit if not fully.
In our area they no longer have an SEU unit able to take full time students in SEU for their safety.
You have to be, if I remember rightly, level 4-6.
There is only one place in town that can take that level and it is full, like all centres across the state.
This is due to a major lack of funding in our state school and SEU system with 75% of the Federal Government funding going to private schools.
This means for the children they are going to keep getting further behind at school and have a very high chance of dropping out of school, as well as high risk of low self esteem, poverty, possible homelessness, joblessness, difficulty with relationships and integrating into society including a possibility of turning to crime.
As a parent, I refuse to sit back and be told that this situation is OK, and I'll be damned if I will let it happen.
It is my right and my duty to do all that is possible to help these kids achieve the best they can in life.
It has now come point where after much research and consideration, I will be taking the children from the state school system in preference of IEP (Individual Education Plan) from home.
This by no means is going easy, especially for Ben.
Sam however should perform better as he wont be thrown out of whack every time school holidays come around or his teacher is away.
This will also improve his safety, and give them both the one on one assistance that they need.
I hope to have them both catch up to their peers as close as possible and to their ability by the end of the yr with possibility two yrs to be on the safe side with Sam.
Three weeks ago I was talking on the phone to a supervisor from the head office and discovered that Sam is suppose to be in full time SEU for his safety.
This only reconfirmed for me the urgent need to start home Education.
Let us hope he makes it through the last few weeks of school OK while I prepare the paper work.
I tried to do this last yr but was told by the school it was illegal and that I had no other choice but for him to attend that school. I was also told that if I didn't send him there that I would have him taken off me by the dept. All for trying to protect his life as required by law.
No-one ever said hey this situation is not working why don't you give him home education like most other parents with disabled kids, and kids who live out west!
No I'm afraid they have had 4yrs to prove themselves with Ben,and Sam who has a right to be and feel safe.
Next year we will open that big scary door to home education for their sakes.
This by no means is a little decision. I have had to give up work for this.
I am a single parent and need to be able to work, but some times you have to draw a line as to what is more important.
I do hope to be able to start up a home business to try to generate income. Who knows, the kids may be able to learn how to manage it in future too.
That will help them in the future with work opportunities, as they will learn business skills.
So here's to a new path in learning and future opportunities!
Friday, October 05, 2007
School holidays
"Mum, mum....guess what mum? We have school holidays!"
"Mum, Mum...can we please go to see the movies....please...please, please mum...mum can we go?"
Does any of this sound familiar to you? Don't worry if it does, you have the comfort of knowing every other parent in the world are experiencing the exact same phenomenon.
For us its nearly over and we have managed to go through most of in unscaithed (not counting the few cat fights amongst the boys as usual).
The holidays have been pretty much flying past, and I have discovered the kids love print outs of school work sheets to do, then recycle those sheets to make crafts.
We have been learning about plants, how a plant lives and grows.
The children and myself have been planting diferent types of trees and flowers.
Every week if they were good they got to buy a plant to the value of their pocket money each.
They then plant it with my help and have to look after the plant every day.
So far they have brought a few fruit trees, Shrubs, flowers and a passion fruit vine.
This week as part of their studies on plants they have planted vegetable seeds and flower seeds.
Every day they will tend to them to see how they grow.
Another part of this learning is to talk about diferent types of food, where that food comes from and what type of food it is.
The kids loved preparing the food as they discused were it was from, then getting to eat it the most.
I can't wait until the plants are big enough to eat.
This is the last week of school holidays and as of monday it is officially school time again.
Yeay fun...these guys are soo not going to want to go.
I hate to admit it but I'm going to miss them.
Antonio is in the process of learning to sleep in a bed.
He is doing very well so far, but I'm not overly suprised as he usually is so willing to sleep anywhere. More so when he has people around him.
He has fallen out a few times but I have learnt along time ago that you either put the mattress on the floor or you put a second one down there so when they do fall they don't hurt themselves to badly. I don't trust added barriers unless its an approved feature of the bed.
If all else fails you can always buy a trundle bed, which you will always find more than one use for.
Trundles are one of those things you can never do with out, if not for your kids then for visitors.
I'm in the middle of working on a new biz. I'm hoping all will go good.
"Mum, mum....guess what mum? We have school holidays!"
"Mum, Mum...can we please go to see the movies....please...please, please mum...mum can we go?"
Does any of this sound familiar to you? Don't worry if it does, you have the comfort of knowing every other parent in the world are experiencing the exact same phenomenon.
For us its nearly over and we have managed to go through most of in unscaithed (not counting the few cat fights amongst the boys as usual).
The holidays have been pretty much flying past, and I have discovered the kids love print outs of school work sheets to do, then recycle those sheets to make crafts.
We have been learning about plants, how a plant lives and grows.
The children and myself have been planting diferent types of trees and flowers.
Every week if they were good they got to buy a plant to the value of their pocket money each.
They then plant it with my help and have to look after the plant every day.
So far they have brought a few fruit trees, Shrubs, flowers and a passion fruit vine.
This week as part of their studies on plants they have planted vegetable seeds and flower seeds.
Every day they will tend to them to see how they grow.
Another part of this learning is to talk about diferent types of food, where that food comes from and what type of food it is.
The kids loved preparing the food as they discused were it was from, then getting to eat it the most.
I can't wait until the plants are big enough to eat.
This is the last week of school holidays and as of monday it is officially school time again.
Yeay fun...these guys are soo not going to want to go.
I hate to admit it but I'm going to miss them.
Antonio is in the process of learning to sleep in a bed.
He is doing very well so far, but I'm not overly suprised as he usually is so willing to sleep anywhere. More so when he has people around him.
He has fallen out a few times but I have learnt along time ago that you either put the mattress on the floor or you put a second one down there so when they do fall they don't hurt themselves to badly. I don't trust added barriers unless its an approved feature of the bed.
If all else fails you can always buy a trundle bed, which you will always find more than one use for.
Trundles are one of those things you can never do with out, if not for your kids then for visitors.
I'm in the middle of working on a new biz. I'm hoping all will go good.
Saturday, September 01, 2007
So here we go again...Got lost for awhile actually...
Don't ever misplace your account details. Thank godness google have added a new service for misplaced codes (the best 1 I've seen in a long time).
Birthdays, birthdays, birthdays....there have been plenty of birthdays since I was last able to log in.
Lets see...
Bens is still coming, so is Sams. Rose is now 4 and started prep yr ( preschool) the same day ( lucky girl gets to do it again next yr). Josh is now 6 and Antonio has finally made it to 2...Yippy!!!
Its official...ben has glasses (maybe now he will be able to read the board and do his school work). He is still struggling with school big time! Very low in his grades ( even in classes he does very well in at home!!) So I say, "Ben whats going on mate? This is something you do excellent at home all the time. whats happening in class?" He then tells me he can't concertrate and keeps talking to his friend in class instead! Go figure.
Sammy poor ol' Sammy...what are we gonna do with him?
Many child specialist later, tests and trials, speach therapists, occupational therapists and behavoral team managment sessions and we are finally starting to see some progress.
The new medications are working beautifully and for the first time he is starting to be able to join in class to do school work and learn something ( big clap for sammy!).
Don't ever judge a parent for using medication please.. Your good intentions could end up harming the childs safety.
I have watched my son go through hell, hit himself in the head, try to kill himself, shove paper and plastic down his throat, escape and run down the road in front of cars and out of the school grounds near major roads that are 80km zones (thats just the start). The knives 1 was just as scarey...
His very impulsive and has ADHD type behavior with Interlectual Impairment level 2.
Alot of people find this hard to deal with or accept. He gets kicked out of centres and finds it hard to do the normal community things kids get to do as they go through school due to lack of support or a willingness to understand.
Trust me the medication isn't for my own wants...It's to save his life!!
When you have to look after any kind of child with these kind of problems or worse you will understand.
Hope he continues to do well....Keep it up Sam. We love you!
Birthdays, birthdays, birthdays....there have been plenty of birthdays since I was last able to log in.
Lets see...
Bens is still coming, so is Sams. Rose is now 4 and started prep yr ( preschool) the same day ( lucky girl gets to do it again next yr). Josh is now 6 and Antonio has finally made it to 2...Yippy!!!
Its official...ben has glasses (maybe now he will be able to read the board and do his school work). He is still struggling with school big time! Very low in his grades ( even in classes he does very well in at home!!) So I say, "Ben whats going on mate? This is something you do excellent at home all the time. whats happening in class?" He then tells me he can't concertrate and keeps talking to his friend in class instead! Go figure.
Sammy poor ol' Sammy...what are we gonna do with him?
Many child specialist later, tests and trials, speach therapists, occupational therapists and behavoral team managment sessions and we are finally starting to see some progress.
The new medications are working beautifully and for the first time he is starting to be able to join in class to do school work and learn something ( big clap for sammy!).
Don't ever judge a parent for using medication please.. Your good intentions could end up harming the childs safety.
I have watched my son go through hell, hit himself in the head, try to kill himself, shove paper and plastic down his throat, escape and run down the road in front of cars and out of the school grounds near major roads that are 80km zones (thats just the start). The knives 1 was just as scarey...
His very impulsive and has ADHD type behavior with Interlectual Impairment level 2.
Alot of people find this hard to deal with or accept. He gets kicked out of centres and finds it hard to do the normal community things kids get to do as they go through school due to lack of support or a willingness to understand.
Trust me the medication isn't for my own wants...It's to save his life!!
When you have to look after any kind of child with these kind of problems or worse you will understand.
Hope he continues to do well....Keep it up Sam. We love you!
Rose is doing beautifully. She has many friends at day care and is fitting in well at prep.
For her birthday (and her brothers) they all got a little party. There was glow in the dark sticks that they made necklaces out of and yo-yos... lots of healthy snack and some special treats.
We love rasberry spiders ( soft drink n icecream).
Sam thought it would be great to bite a bright yellow glow in the dark and it leaked all over his bed (It"s a wonder that it never burnt him).
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Joshs' birthday was a few days before hand they did a simlar thing for his birthday...It was a blast.
He loves going to school and can't wait to go to the police and citizens youth club after school.
He is getting quite a computer navigating buff I might say...If only he stopped filling it with tracking cookies...we can hope!
Antonio has finally started throwing tamper tamptrams....hahaha
The grief kids put parents through...
We love 'em! If we didn't we wouldn't put up with it!
Besides we only have to put up with it 'til they mature some time between 16 and 32.
His birthday was last mth. Nice day...Don't give kids chocolate mud cake in the evening after work when your tired!! Trust me for some reason they go hypo ( best left to days on weekends when it doesn't matter).
It's my birthday and I'm set on having fun!
Oh yeah....It's good to let your hair down (even if it is extreamy rare).
I managed to actually find someone who is actually able to look after a large group of kids and keep thier cool as well as come home to a clean house (the way I left it)!
Darl you are a saint!!
Look forward to seeing you again.
It was a good night and enjoyed very much.
That now makes me 28.
Suffered a hip injury at work a few months back. It's still healing but getting there.
Driving taxis can be interesting I must say.
Doing a bit of anything that goes with the cars at the moment.
I hope to get back onto WAVs full time again soon.
I'm thinking of the idea of leasing a taxi so I can earn a more stable income in a way that will be more flexible for my kids, expecially for Sam.
I have been looking at a few ideas for awhile now but still on no go zones.
Lets see how we go.
For her birthday (and her brothers) they all got a little party. There was glow in the dark sticks that they made necklaces out of and yo-yos... lots of healthy snack and some special treats.
We love rasberry spiders ( soft drink n icecream).
Sam thought it would be great to bite a bright yellow glow in the dark and it leaked all over his bed (It"s a wonder that it never burnt him).
.jpg)
Joshs' birthday was a few days before hand they did a simlar thing for his birthday...It was a blast.
He loves going to school and can't wait to go to the police and citizens youth club after school.
He is getting quite a computer navigating buff I might say...If only he stopped filling it with tracking cookies...we can hope!
Antonio has finally started throwing tamper tamptrams....hahaha
The grief kids put parents through...
We love 'em! If we didn't we wouldn't put up with it!
Besides we only have to put up with it 'til they mature some time between 16 and 32.
His birthday was last mth. Nice day...Don't give kids chocolate mud cake in the evening after work when your tired!! Trust me for some reason they go hypo ( best left to days on weekends when it doesn't matter).
It's my birthday and I'm set on having fun!
Oh yeah....It's good to let your hair down (even if it is extreamy rare).
I managed to actually find someone who is actually able to look after a large group of kids and keep thier cool as well as come home to a clean house (the way I left it)!
Darl you are a saint!!
Look forward to seeing you again.
It was a good night and enjoyed very much.
That now makes me 28.
Suffered a hip injury at work a few months back. It's still healing but getting there.
Driving taxis can be interesting I must say.
Doing a bit of anything that goes with the cars at the moment.
I hope to get back onto WAVs full time again soon.
I'm thinking of the idea of leasing a taxi so I can earn a more stable income in a way that will be more flexible for my kids, expecially for Sam.
I have been looking at a few ideas for awhile now but still on no go zones.
Lets see how we go.
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